Dwelling on the negative vs cutting negative people out of one's life.
These are two opposing actions.
Both are harmful.
One continually aggravates an existing wound. The other amputates it.
Neither course of action will HEAL the problem.
Think of these distressed relationships as a wound.
You might clean it, cover it for a while, and then let it air again.
Speak the truth, gently. Ask for some time for feelings to heal and emotions to calm. Then forgive.
If you still cannot be together, blame no one. This is a personality type that triggers a part of you that you don't like. One day you must confront this. To reject it, rejects self.
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