Turning the Other Cheek

The problem with forgiveness is the people who aren’t done attacking.

So you let it slide, be the bigger person.  The opportunists see you as a target, they come back for more.  You’re now an easy mark.

There are a couple of rules in life.  One is you don’t have to engage with baiters.  Once you see the game, it’s ok to hit the delete button.

Block them, walk away, ignore, etc.

Isn’t that better than sticking around to hear them say unpleasant things to you, or for you to say unpleasant things to them.  It’s their problem, no reason why you have to be dragged into it.

This applies in person, online, or with any form of communication.

Walk away and live your life.

If the problem is physical or criminal, then it’s time to remember that turning the other cheek wasn’t the only thing Jesus knew how to do.

He also knew how to make a point when things went too far.  In the temple, he turned over tables and drove out the money-changers with a whip.

Remember that next time.  Don’t apologize for removing yourself from any situation you don’t want to be in.  And don’t let people defile your temple!